Those tiny-weenie things...!!!

“Dude.. I want you to do me a favor..”,  “Ahh.. Dude.. I really want to fix that up for you.. But I’m afraid I have to be somewhere else..”

“Hey.. Can you lend me some extra bucks..”,  “I wish I could have.. I m so sorry.. I am running low..”

“I was waiting for your call.. You never called me back..”,  “Um.. I was busy dude.. I was doing this… busy caught up with something else..”

Wondering what that is all about.. It’s the different contexts where people ask their friends little favors.. and the replies are “at times” disappointing.. That at times sometimes is always in somebody’s case!!!

Really?? Are all those excuses true?? If so to what extent?

Consider a scenario of two friends who haven’t spoken for a really long while. Probably a year. One day you bump into that person.. It’s obvious that the other guy asks you where have you been, you never called me, bahut busy ho gaya.. okay. Even if the other person doesn’t ask you, you are definitely gonna do the same.. the spontaneous answer would be “I’m busy”.. Okay.. Forget about it.. You promise somebody, say for instance, meet them at a particular time.. You wouldn’t even show up.. Next day.. The answer would be the same.

That is so not true, I mean the BUSY thing..!! There have been innumerous occasions where each one of us have been through this. We must have really heard it, like what, a thousand times, or probably even more.

But, that’s not right, right?? It’s the priority. We, for our convenience set our own priorities.

However, this is not the case when your best buddy invites you for a hang out. When the person whom you love shows up out of no where.

But how far is this justifiable. The people who show their backs, to the ones who asked favors, are really to be blamed? Do the rejected ones ever think of the situation of the others? Does our human tendency really help us out to walk us through that situations??

I, lately have been thinking. Nobody has to be ever blamed. Because you never know what they have been going through or what they are really going through. Everybody have their own “Priorities”.

My dad used to say, this is a commercial world. Nobody really has time to care even, their families. And he goes a step further and says “Some people, here I mean the same family members, give priority based on your financial status..”.What he meant was “Some Morons give importance to money than to people..”. Trust me. That is so true and I have seen it in.. or may be, observed that in many cases.

People really pretend to be someone else most of the time. You portray a different YOU as per the situation You are in. Then, how far is it justifiable to expect a favor from the others. And that is not where we stop. We tend to speak behind their back. That is all a whole new story now. And that opens a really big window to speak about. (With giving me another topic to write about.. LOL..).

But, do we really have to set priorities. These all are just tiny things in our lives. So tiny, that you ignore them and the ones who are facing it, is a big thing for them. So many people give huge messages/advices but nobody cares for the little things. How many of us are actually doing the favors to those who need the most at that moment. Am I doing that? Well, I honestly don’t know the answer.

There was a message given in a latest movie.

“saayam pondhina vaadu kruthagynatha chupakapovadam entha thappo

 saayam chesina vaadu kruthagynatha korukovadam anthe thappu”. 

A perfect message actually. At first I appreciated it. But then, when I thought over about it. I felt.. Kya bakwaas hain. I mean.. Its Bakwaas when it comes to practicality.

At first place, nobody is in a position to do favors, even if they did, people are like “I’ve helped you with that, what did you do in return??” Or some people play this card.. “I have been fixing every issue of yours.. did I ever ask you any..??” giving hint that they want something in return.

Going back to message, I personally feel, when you do a favor, you expect, atleast some sort of gratitude. If any of you are disagreeing with this.. Kathalu oddu.. andaru anthe. Because we are Mango-People.(Aaam Jantha :D :D)

Anyways, all the stuff I said, I really don’t have answers for them. I’m no exception. I’m the guy from the same Mango-People. But its just that. When I atleast read this stuff over and over, I may become freaky and start helping people. You never know. J

Well, that’s all about it.

Moving on to next one. It’s the February 14^th. Valentine’s Day. Yes, this is the day for Lovers.

Now, there have been many of my friends saying, that’s bull shit day. If you have to show love why is it have to be only that day. Not just this. Even for Mother’s day, Father’s day. People keep saying. Why do we have to celebrate on that particular day only. Every day can be Mother’s day.

Ilanti tikka questions aduguthene kaaledhi. Why the *beep* you wanna *beep*ing celebrate your birthday on that day itself? You have to be *beep*ing graceful to God that he made you a complete human being, gifted you a life, for which you gotta celebrate every single day you live, every single breath you take.

Every single day has got its importance, uniqueness. I have read something about valentine’s day too in Wikipedia. I really don’t remember it. Go ahead and read it. As this day has got its unique identity.   

Same with Father’s day, Mother’s day and all those XYZ days. Those days are celebrated for some reason, which you obviously do not know. So, atleast if you don’t appreciate them, don’t *beep*ing criticize them.

Hope all the lovely couples had a wonderful Valentine’s day.

And yeaa.. Eedu baaga extralu chesaadu ee post lo ani evarikaina anipisthe. Comments lo kummeskondi..!! J J

God bless us all.

Life the is the beautifullsss…!!!

Yours

Dev..!! J