Lyfff...!!! (L-!-F-E...)!!!

Well... hi.. i m back wit my new post... did not tel u guys wat my next post is in my previous one...!!! And.. now.. goin by the title.. dont be startled... and dont think tat... ab yeh aa gaya lecture maarne... philosophy... and al that... no its gonna be like tat.. but... i m gonna express the stuff... which i have experienced and also abt the stuff which is visible to me.. :)

Hm.... So.. here the comes the most basic question... and i often hear it these days.... how's life?? May be few years ago.. i remember.. somebody asked me and i replied.. well.. my life sucks..!!! and.. now when i think of it...i feel... how stupid was i...!! seriously... man... if u r gonna say ur life sucks... obviously.. u r responsible for it..!!! When u know tat... ur life is so dumb... come on.. y dont u think of doin something interesting..!!! rather than saying it sucks...!!! for that piece of thing... even i was a looser.. yea.. seriously... all those out there.. who feel.. their life sucks.. its dumb.. life is boring.. crap.... every one who's gonna give such sort of answers are loosers... :) Ab woh zamaana toh badal gaya ki... maa-baap jaise kahe waise hi bache jee raha hain... no.. its not like tat..!!!

But.. to tel you... In my 21 years of life... though i m not quite a pro to speak abt life... but... so far... all i can say is... al the ones out there in this universe... are blessed...!!! Really..!!! You get a chance to live..!!! and of course... tat is big a DEAL..!!

I have seen many kind of people..!!! People who have unlimited fun...!!! People do nothing except for work hard... be it job.. or education.. or relations... wat ever it is gonna be...!!! People... fool around wit no sense... pretend doin one thing... end up doin something else... (may be al engineering students come in this... okay... majority of them.. though few are very much dedicated... :P) People who live a balanced life.. work hard as well enjoy..!!! People who jus hate their being... and also... i have jus heard about the people... who have committed suicide... and i have seen the people who wanted to commit suicide... now here comes the thing... suicide... the reason i have come across for decision of suicide among the ones i know are... love failure.... dude.. WTF... grow up man..!!! log yahan pe.. ek-ek din ek-ek partner badal rahe hain... aur woh saale jo ek baar love failure ho gaya.. aur suicide..!!! agar suicide karna hi toh hain... toh pyaar kiya hi kyun..!!! and there are people who exist on this planet jus for the sake of money...!!!

Speaking as a normal person...!!! My life...!!! has jus been a simple ride so far... yea.. no regrets... tat i shud have done this... shud have done that... no... i dont complain... coz... i blantantly say that... i m solely responsible for wat i m today.. how i m today...!!! my life has no major influences... may be in few instances but... i dont look up to my fellow mate and say... yea.. i even wanna live like him/her.. no.. i never do tat...!!! i m bringing this point.. coz.. there are many people whom i have seen do like tat... which i jus hate...!!!

Jus like as i said... My life has been simple.. yea.. i have jus done my tenth, +2, engineering.. well... tat was an easy thing... not that i have achieved many accolades.. but... yea... i m happy... i m finally pursuing my masters... :) it was sort of like a 2 years dream... and i could achieve it..!!! When i was given the stamping... on dec 13th... i still remember the words of a special person in my life.. he kept on saying that for many times... " a good break vaasu... at the age of 21... "... well.. that kind off boosts me every time i remember that sentence...!!! it makes me feel that... i have achieved something... though there are many who say... US... is no big deal... but... it indeed is... yes... jus because it is a big deal... only few get to that position among many...!!! Only the person who has been through it can understand..!!! My life has many up's and down's..!! many of them..!! but thanks to god.. i could overcome... time to time...!!! :)

And those who reach US for pursuing masters... commonly complain about life.. even i did tat in the beginning.. but.. now tat i realise... i m jus living a balanced life.. i m getting to kno a lot of stuff.. responsibilities... i get to see the life in a different way..!!! altogether i can say is a new experience..!!! wish one could get such kind of experience when they get to live with parents too... :)

So... all i jus say is.. Live the life jus the way it goes..!!! accept things ur way...!!! Instead of complaining about life... come on... you design how u want ur life to be..!!! plan it in a way that there is no turn around..!!! You are responsible for your life...!!! People say... I m jus wat i am.. but.. 99 percent of them doesnt mean wat they say...!!! And those people.. who are in a committment... or relationship... at 21 or rather early teens or twenties... (which i personally feel is too early.. anyways... lets speak about it later...) when u r goin to be in a relationship.. let it be blissful... not a painful one.. dont complicate things...!!! 99 percent of the relationships i see are complicated... either it s goin to be tat.. parents do not know abt ur relationship.. or u break up for no reason... possessiveness... or guy has to speak only to his girl... a girl shud not speak wit any other guy... oh come on...!! Jus let ur partner be wat they are..!!! give them freedom..!!! when u r committed to some one.. it shud mean tat u r happy about it.. not insecured about it.. or .. u kno,.. al the those drama kind of things...!!! and the next step for al this stuff... is.. like... level upgraded is.. suicide...!!! come on yaar...!!! some body broke up wit you.. at a point of time they loved you.. and now that... u breakup... dont jus blame on one person.. there is absolutely mistake from both the persons.... i can confidently say this...!! okay.. if they broke up wit u... come on.. they dont deserve u.. u deserve somebody better than that person.. on the flip side... if a person is meant to be wit u forever.. there is no question of break-up..!!! so.. again... never jus complicate things...!!! there are lot many things to be done.. rather than fighting for relations...!!!

and... jus so u kno... i m a lot blessed... never been in a relationship so far in my life..!!! so happy for that.. but at the same time.. man its been 21 years... and gonna be 22 in 2 months... and still i ve never been in a relationship... kind off sucks.. but.. yea.. i m lot happy..!!! al the people who has issues wit their respective gf's/bf's... come to me.. seeking for my advice... i keep thinking... LOL... wat do i kno... but.. i help them out wit wat ever i kno...but i ve never been in tat situation so far..!!! wow.. lucky me... :) and ofcourse.. people even hide their relationships..!!! come on... darne ki kya baat hain..!!! if u r gonna be in tat position... be confident and let the world know... else dont go for it... :) tat is my funda in this matter...!!!

also.. one famous quote.. which i take for granted is... kuch paane ke liye kuch khonaa padtha... so true it is..!!!

so... in the concluding lines... keep it simple.. enjoy every walk of ur life...!!! u never know how ur life is gonna be in the future..!!! instead of saying it is boring.. come on... do something which interests u..who's stopping u from doin tat so...!!! Enjoy the life for wat its worth...!!!
You live only once..!!! So, live it from the heart..!!! :)
Spread love... Keep Smiling..!!!
As i always say... LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL...!!! still lots to come in this life of mine... :) (expectations ekkuve unnayi... :D :D)

Tat is it from this post... hope.. u liked it...!!! and ... most importantly... do correct me where ever u feel i m wrong.. as i want to learn the things... :)

Yours..
Dev..!!! :)

(Next post... most probably Sequel to R-A-H-M-A-N-I-S-M... :) or u tell me... ilanti postlu raasi inka saavakottamante... kottesthaa... :D :D)
Thanks for reading... and i'd appreciate ur comments... :) take care...!!